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 How to feel confident? Confidence means assurance which also means that proof. But we all can feel confident when we have nothing to  proof or any assurance, of anything. Well it means that to feel confident we have to have something?  For example,  let's say that you are going to play a football match and you are scared because haven't played football before. Well, how can you feel confident? even though you know that we can lose the match.  Well, the answer is simple, accept that you are going to fail, get comfortable with that. Boom! Now feel confident. Confidence itself is a complex thing as it is not necessary that you must have something that makes you feel confident. There are many people who have many things like a million rupees, a great body, a big house, etc. But these things do not necessarily mean that they have confidence. Confidence has nothing to do with tangible things it, simply does not depend on something which is outside your body.  Confidence

What is love?

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What is love? What is love? Only Romeo and Juliet were true lovers or they were idiots? First, lets us see how our mind works? ‌ For thousands of centuries, our minds mostly were attracted to immediate pleasure. As there was an immediate threat to our life. If some wild animals came in our way we used to run away or used to attack without thinking on our part. These were quick responses that were given to us by nature. Today in psychology we call it the reptilian brain which is responsible for our involuntary responses. That's a critical part of our brain due to which most of the daily activities are carried out. From this when our brain sees an object which excites it. ‌ This creates a problem as we take quick actions which creates a lot of problems in future. Like we fall in love with the person who really doesn't love. We all the time fall in love with the wrong person. I used to love someone but later I realized that she used me so I had a relationship with her