How to feel confident?
Confidence means assurance which also means that proof. But we all can feel confident when we have nothing to proof or any assurance, of anything. Well it means that to feel confident we have to have something? For example, let's say that you are going to play a football match and you are scared because haven't played football before. Well, how can you feel confident? even though you know that we can lose the match. Well, the answer is simple, accept that you are going to fail, get comfortable with that. Boom! Now feel confident.
Confidence itself is a complex thing as it is not necessary that you must have something that makes you feel confident. There are many people who have many things like a million rupees, a great body, a big house, etc. But these things do not necessarily mean that they have confidence. Confidence has nothing to do with tangible things it, simply does not depend on something which is outside your body.
Confidence is feeling. It the perception that we lack nothing. Still, we are not able to have it? Because we are not comfortable with our failure and we all are always expecting only good things in lives. This expectation for good makes us less confident as we can't win always but we can always learn. I would like to leave this message "Pursuit for good experience itself a negative experience but acceptance for a bad experience is a good experience." It said by Mark Manson.
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